Is it the fear of Failure or the fear of Success that is holding
The greatest obstacle
to your success is the fear of failure, I bet you have read these words before
, if you have been trying to break the barriers of failure and move ahead in
your life. Well
here is another shocking piece of news for you...
It is not only the fear of
failure that has its fetters sunk deep inside you, it is the fear of success
that is your sworn enemy. Yes, you are scared of achievement, scared of
success, scared of reaching your destination...
"Have faith in your ability to meet any emergency
when it comes"
Wattles in Science Of Getting Rich
Strategies to deal with your fears --
Overcoming Fear :
Sit down with pen and paper, and try and
work out what is holding you back. Be totally honest.
Once you know the exact problem, the
next step is to work on eliminating it. Brain storm for ways on how you
can deal with this issue. Do you need to build up on confidence,
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Visualize yourself overcoming your fear
and doing the thing that is causing you this heartache. Give loving energy
to this fear and know that everything is being settled in your highest
Get as much information about what you
fear and make yourself comfortable thinking about it.
Do not think about what happened in the
past. Do not think about what might happen in the future. Think of your
immediate present concerns.
Keep your mind wide open, do not paralyze it with
For your mind is a survivor, and has the natural instincts to enable
you to cope and face even the most drastic situations when they arise. You
do not need to think about them now, you do not need to limit your self in
any way, for you have the inherent instincts to live, thrive and grow.
Lets review some scenarios to analyze
what kind of fears may be holding you back...
Preventing You From Being Rich...
Yes , why is it that you do not have enough money, it
is because you are afraid of being rich!
Probably you are scared that you
will loose it all.
you are scared that you will be isolating yourself from your current
you are scared that you would not know how to handle all that wealth.
you are scared that after you have binged with a big enough spending
spree, you will fall back into your state of dissatisfaction...
Think deeply. Do any of
these ring true for you? Then you can know right now what is holding you
back from achieving that state of wealth that you desire.
2. What's Holding
you back from success in business...
Okay lets look at another
Say for instance
you are trying to develop a website or establish an internet business to
generate a passive flow of income... Yet even after you have tried everything
you are still not getting the requisite volume of sales and not making any
appreciable living through it. Lets see what's holding you back...
scared that because of the volatile nature of the online market and the
erratic behaviors of the search engines, even if you manage to get a
good enough ranking, and start producing a good enough volume of sales,
that you will not be able to sustain those sails in the long term. After a
while they will dry out again. You will be left in an even greater
quandary then right now, because by then you will have become used to having
that extra cash... If one day you wake up and find out that some change in
the search engine technology has plummeted your sales back to ground zero…
you won’t be able to cope with the loss of that income;
or are you scared
that you will not be able to explain/justify that income to your friends,
or that you will have to start paying increased taxes once your website
or that you will be accused of spamming and your website
will be shut down leaving you stranded,
or that someone is going to come
and steal your website content….
Or that you do make loads and loads of
sales but your affiliate partners cheat out on you and refuse to pay you.
your self internally and see what are the feelings about your online
business that silently creep up to you.
discover that there are some feelings of fear that are definitely holding
3. Why Can't you
get that dream job...
Or lets consider why you are not getting that new job
you have been so looking for...
scared that you will not be able to give the required performance, your
work will be sloppy,
will have to do a long commute,
you will be late to work,
you will not be able to qualify the probation period than you will be left
without any job at all… You know the saying that a bird in the hand is
better than two in the bush,
you will not be able to get along with your new boss…
thousand and one fears that are stopping you in your tracks.
4. Why can't you
leave a bad relationship... The Fear of Break Up or Loneliness after a
Or lets consider
an abusive relationship,
You are scared
of leaving the abusive relationship or moving away from your partner.
scared of stepping out of it because you are afraid that you will have to
start all over again,
you will not be able to survive without your current partner,
you will not be able to find someone else and will be left totally lonely,
you will not be able to support yourself financially,
you will have to go get a job and you are scared of working…
5. Why can't you
enter into your dream relationship...
Or you are not
getting into a relationship because
scared that you do not make enough money and will not be able to support
you are scared of making a long term/forever commitment,
you will not be able to give sufficient time and attention and efforts to
the relationship will turn out sour after the initial period of
enchantment is over,
you do not have the time,
you are scared of allowing someone into your life
of sharing your innermost feelings and beliefs ,
you will not be able to tolerate any interference…
preventing you from getting into that perfect relationship
The fear of
uncertainty at the start of anything new is paralyzing you. You are scared that if you do not do well in the
initial period, you will not be able to regain your present sure footed
ness and will slip and fall into a never ending abyss of doom. Or in short
terms it is the fear of change. You are so tuned in to holding onto and
protecting your present turf that you are scared stiff of loosening your
grip and gently opening up and letting go of the old to make way for the
recap the main points for what's holding you back from achieving your
So it basically amounts to a lack of self confidence.
A lack of faith in yourself. A lack of faith in the universe. A lack of
faith in the universal laws. Perhaps even a lack of self esteem. Go and
reprogram your mind. Find out what is holding you back and work on it.
Make your innermost fear your best friend and learn to handle it well.
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