1. Men want
understanding, appreciation, friendship, sympathy more than sex or passion in a
2. Women are
influenced more by love , affection, passion, power, confidence and money.
Courtship or affirmation about love is important to woman.
3. Most cheating
happens unplanned or due to getting carried away by emotions yet there are under
lying insecurities that are the cause of it... it is a crisis waiting to happen
if adequate precautions are not taken.
4. A person's
earliest experiences as a child/infant with his/her parents or caregivers
usually set the pattern for the type of relationship he/she will have later on
in life with their partners... If it was a well balanced childhood with adequate
attention and encouragement... then the adult relationship will be balanced too.
However if it was a controlled, dominating or unloved childhood, certain
insecurities get embedded in that persons psych and may later show up in life to
influence his/her relationships...
5. For a strong
relationship you need love, affection, understanding, appreciation, caring,
trust and friendship - if any of these elements are missing than the relationship
is not balanced.
6. Emotions of suspicion,
jealousy, and lack of trust or even possessiveness and the fear that your relationship will break
up or your partner will cheat on you or leave you is 9 times out of 10
going to turn into a self fulfilling prophecy due the law of attraction... you
are attracting that which you are giving out.
7. A balanced
relationship is more likely to last rather than a platonic relationship. A
platonic relationship burns out faster than a fire cracker, as the two partners
realize that they have nothing in common to hold their interests together once
the fires lighted by the sexual passions have burnt out.
8. Earlier on in
the relationship, most relationships get polarized... , both partners develop
a little bit of codependency in a relationship, if this is balanced out right
than the relationship can be very successful.
9. If you are
experiencing problems in your relationship, it is very highly likely that you
are attracting such relationships due to insecurities embedded deep down in your
mind... you need to develop a better self image, you need to appreciate yourself
more, you need to have a strong self confidence... and then the people you will
attract to yourself will be better accordingly... So the question is more
like... Do you love yourself.... You will be loved only to the extent that you
love yourself. Try using the best self help available
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