Most normal man
want positive understanding, admiration, appreciation, respect and friendship
in a relationship more than passion or sex. They want their efforts however
small to be recognized and affirmed ...
That's why most man, provided they are
not outright sex addicts or perverted jerks, get 'carried away' into cheating because they feel
they are getting more understanding, sympathy and appreciation from someone
else. Of course the importance of passion cannot be overlooked and every effort
should be made to keep the relationship fresh and going strong.
To stop your man from further cheating, it is
important for you to find out the underlying cause of his cheating behavior and
figure out a way to handle the relationship from that angle. To give you a
deeper understanding of why man cheat , read the article:
Cheating is Just a Symptom
Here is how to stop your husband or boy friend
1. Review your
relationship from the beginning and figure out what brought you two together in
the first place... Why did your man find attractive in you? If possible try to
recreate those elements in your life once again.
2. Make a list of all the things you like about
your husband. C'mon there must be things you like about him however small... try
to expand upon this list and keep reviewing it... because the more you focus on
his positive qualities, the more your unconscious attitude and body language
will start projecting positive vibes towards your man... and he is going to pick
upon it very fast, and you will get a positive reaction from him. This is the
gift that keeps on giving, so remain focused on your man's positive qualities
and all the good things in your relationship.
showing more understanding, more sympathy and more appreciation to your husband
4. Who are the people in your life whom your
husband is very close with... Is he close with his mom, dad, brother, sister,
some friend...? Find out those people whom your husband or boyfriend is very
close with and make an effort to get to know them better... try and make them
like you.... this is the same concept of using peer pressure to influence
5.Organize a romantic date with your husband or
boy friend... First make a good dinner, relax out your man thoroughly,
Remind him of some of the really happy good times you have had together...
Show him some of the old photographs, Use passion, seduce him, do
what-ever-it-takes to get a commitment from your partner to stop cheating. Once
you have the commitment and while those romantic feelings are still hot, present Remain Faithful
self hypnosis to him
as a solution that you feel comfortable with and make him listen to it. Keep
repeating for the next few days. Don't give him a chance to fall back.
6. While you are making your husband or boyfriend
listen to Remain Faithful,
Your part is to remain totally positive, confident
and believe with complete and unwavering faith that it will happen.
You need to start visualizing your
relationship as perfect, joyful and happy.
Project feelings of peace and love to
envelope yourself and your husband.
See both of you having the same level of intimacy
that you had initially or even better.
Simply refuse to entertain any contradictory
thoughts that may dare to seep into your mind. Every time a negative thought
about your relationship enters your mind, replace it with a positive, loving and
7. Try to understand how the power of
your thoughts works in bringing you what you want - read
Law of Attraction