How to get revenge on your ex-girlfriend
Why are you obsessed with the need for
revenge with your ex-girlfriend? Is she bothering you --
Perhaps trying to ruin you
Or perhaps by trying to take away any of
your custodial rights you might share?
Or is she trying to sabotage your current
/new relationship with your new girl friend?
Or is the mere thought of her driving you
crazy, making you feel miserable, worthless, angry, jealous or
Do you feel she has got the upper hand in
your break up and you need to get even?
Whatever your motivation for your need for
revenge, before you proceed further, you are advised to consider the sage
words of experts like Tony Robbins and others :
It's not what happens to you that
matters... But how you respond to it that makes all the difference.
C'mon You definitely don't want to fall into
the category of the likes of your high school bully, or an estranged
husband who in a fit of rage murders his wife, or even the like's of mass
murderers like Robert Pickton who murdered over 50 women on his farm and
fed their remains to the pigs. Everyone knows that such people are
psychologically un-secure if not outright deranged ... They are or usually
end up as psychopaths. The initial need for revenge is the flame which
ultimately consumes them shooting them down this route.
You are better than that. You are stronger
than the baser emotions that are pulling you towards seeking revenge with
your ex-girlfriend. You can manage such emotions and get over them with
the upper hand.
Now if the cause of this need for revenge is
your girlfriend - she is trying to harass you/ ruin your life even
though you have broken apart - there are perfectly authentic legal
ways to stop her besides seeking revenge. And remember, if you handle this
properly, her harassment of you will only be of short term impact on you.
While it is going to consume her own life and make her totally miserable.
First of all if she is harassing you,
it is a very strong indication that she hasn't gotten over it yet, or
hasn't gotten anything better in her life to keep her away from you... So
she is using the only way she knows how, to get at you. That should be of
some consolation to you. You can always use legal channels to deal with
harassment issues. Let her know in no uncertain terms that it is over
between you. If possible break off contact with her or keep it to a bare
Also please note that even though she
may have ruined you financially or may still be trying to do so, yet this
is no reason for revenge. Approach this issue honestly, and be sure that
you will be able to regain all your wealth in no time if you keep your
mind open about it... Haven't you read the countless stories of people who
lost everything yet went on to regain it all back and much more... just
because they had the right mindset or way of thinking about it all.
And if on the other hand, the reason
is that you haven't still gotten over her, you are consumed by
thoughts that drive you crazy all the time. These thoughts occupy every
waking moment of your time... sadness, feeling of worthlessness, anger,
jealousy, hatred. You feel slighted and need to get even. It is perfectly
normal to experience such feelings for a short while after the break up.
However don't prolong them or don't let them consume you or drive you into
revenge. Lots of good self Hypnosis tools are available on the market to
help you get over the emotions of a breakup fast, try using them:
And if you feel that self hypnosis
does not work for you, that you still need to get revenge
on your ex girl friend. Here is a novel idea:
Figure out what was it that caused your
breakup... did your ex girlfriend find something missing from your
personality that might have instigated the break up:
Perhaps she felt you were not ambitious
Perhaps she felt you did not have a
magnetic or charismatic personality?
Perhaps she felt that you did not have
Perhaps she felt that you were a lazy,
good for nothing looser?
Or perhaps she felt you were not honest or
even sensitive enough?
Or perhaps she felt that you were cheating
Or perhaps she felt that you were not
or perhaps your breakup was a combination
of several factors and you two did not get along with each other.
Well why not develop the missing
ingredients, with the tools described below, the change is totally
automatic and amazing, because they work:
They are simply the best. At least give them
a chance. Do not ignore them lightly if you respect yourself.
If not , then the only option left for you
is therapy , because harmful revenge is simply not an option that a normal
person like you should even consider. Use your good sense.
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