How to overcome the Luck Factor in Relationships?
Healing Relationship Beliefs
A lot of people don't believe that they are entitled to a happy
relationship. They have been exposed so long to the myth of the fairy tale
ending in a perfect relationship, that it has become just that for them - a
myth. They believe that a perfect relationship is very rare and reserved
for very unique kinds of people. Most of their beliefs become self
fulfilling prophecies and they end with unsatisfactory relationships one after
the other.
How
Do you feel about your relationship?
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Do you feel you deserve a happy, loving , fun filled relationship?
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Or do you think it is very difficult to find the right kind of person with whom
you can have such a successful relationship.
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Do you think all relationships end in misery and pain?
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Do you think you are unlucky in relationships and will always end up with the
wrong kind of guy or girl and never find the love of your life?
If your beliefs are similar to any of the last three described above, then no
wonder you are experiencing break ups or disappointments one after the other in
your relationships. And you will continue to do so unless you resolve your
issues around the feelings of deserve-ability for a happy healthy relationship.
Healing Relationship Beliefs - How to be Lucky in
Relationships
Please note most of your beliefs about your
relationship are centered in your earliest experiences and relationships you
experienced from the beginning of your life... say your parents / family. This
is a question that might shock you...
Are you projecting the fears and
insecurities carried over from your parents/siblings/other close relationships
into your current life?
Most of your attitude or behavior is a
reflection of the beliefs that got instilled in you in your formative years or
other strong influences you may have experienced later on in life.
Be honest with yourself... have you really gotten
over the anguish you might have experienced in say your first relationship or
even earlier ... ?
This has nothing to do with how good your parents
were and they probably did the best they could for you... Yet their fears,
expectations and beliefs got projected into your young impressionable mind
probably totally unconsciously on their part. (And watch out... you might
totally unknowingly be doing the same thing to your own kids right now!)
So isn't it time that you stopped thinking the way
others have thought before you. For once think for yourself.
Happiness or success or joy in life and
relationships has nothing to do with luck.
Please understand , every person what ever his/her status in life deserves a
fulfilling relationship and happiness. You have a right to be happy, joyful and
successful and no one can take this right away from you.
What you are seeking from a relationship is simply:
In fact, the criteria for a satisfactory fulfilling relationship are very simple. You
need balance - A balance of :
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Communication,
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Trust
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Passion, and
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Admiration.
You are looking for these factors in a relationship because you feel a
compelling need for fulfillment welling up from deep inside yourself. Here is an option
for you: Instead of seeking the above qualities outside of yourself, why not
look for them within yourself first.
Yes... love yourself, admire yourself, seek self
fulfillment within yourself first, then you will automatically project all
these qualities to everyone around you.
The theory is very simple, once you become that which you are seeking, you
automatically attract what you are seeking to you. That is, by the law of
attraction, if you develop all the qualities that you are seeking in a
prospective partner, you will automatically attract the right kind of person to
yourself, and have the most satisfying, fulfilling relationship ever.
Now the question is, how can you overcome all your
limitations and develop all those qualities fast. Here are two possible
solutions for you... Pick the one you think is right for you, because they both
work...
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Subliminal Video
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Self
Help Audio CD's..
Do something different for yourself and notice the
change... You deserve it.
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