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Divorce :
Infidelity
By George Williams
Divorce is usually most bitter when it is all about adultery.
There’s no way around it. Hurt feelings and anger seem to fuel
the divorce but rage surrounds it and it causes too much
animosity for all parties concerned. Unfortunately, infidelity
is often the main cause for divorce. However, there are ways to
get through it and move on with your life.
Divorcing your spouse is one of the most trying times in your
life. You may have heard it said that the person would’ve
rather experienced death than divorce. Add in the cause for
divorce as being adultery, and the pain is often too much to
bear.
Adulterous relationships almost never work out in the long run
so if you are the victim in the relationship, then find comfort
in that fact. However, many times your spouse doesn’t want a
divorce but they don’t want to give up their other
relationship. You must move on irregardless. Otherwise, the
hurt will become a very big part of your relationship and will
consume you.
While some relationships go on to thrive after infidelity, you
may be surprised if you do your own research about adultery.
Once it starts, it seldom ends because there is often something
that the other person needs and they weren’t finding it at home
before an affair and they likely won’t find it after the
initial affair.
It is also important to remember that while approaching the
‘other woman’ or the ‘other man’ may make you feel better,
there is no reason for you to approach them. It is likely they
knew your spouse was indeed married and the only thing the
other person will shed light on is how much that they know
about your relationship with your spouse which will only cause
you more pain.
Divorcing because of
adultery, regardless of what you are told
by a psychologist, is a very viable option and you need to do
it. Seldom will you find life after adultery fulfilling. Your
spouse may, but who cares. He or she is not worth your
self-esteem being lowered. While you may want to work things
out and that is very noble of you to show a forgiving heart,
things will never be the same. And you will never have the key
elements of marriage again.
While you may find this key piece of advice comical, there is
only one way to get past the element of adultery if you decide
to stay in a marriage after infidelity and that is to
have an affair yourself and make sure your husband or wife
knows about it. Then, when they ask why or how you could do
this to them ask for forgiveness, be sincere in your sorrow for
hurting them and then assure them that you can get past it. See
if they can live with it and make the most of a new start. The
other person won’t like the feelings of betrayal anymore than
you did.
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