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How to Heal After a Breakup

How to be happy again after your breakup

The reason that you are not happy is not because your lover or partner left you, cheated on you or betrayed your trust, its because you have chosen to feel like a victim.

 You have let anger and low self esteem take over your life. Remember the sage advise that 'it is not what happens to you that matters'... It is how you chose to react to what happens to you that matters most. So if you decide right now to stop being a victim, and you take positive actions to let your anger go, and rebuild your self esteem, you will re-discover all the happiness, excitement and passion of life. Simply change the way you look at your break up.

•  Lovingly put your ego to sleep.

• Release all misguided thoughts of rage and anger.

• Start viewing yourself as a highly lovable, worthy, esteemed and deserving person.

If you are able to do that, I can promise you that the pain of your break up will fade away, like it never existed in the first place. Happiness will come flooding back into your life.

 Here It would be good to note, that happiness is  NOT 'out there', it is 'in here' right inside of you. You are the one who has chosen to restrain your happy emotions by overwhelming them with anger, rage, guilt or feelings of helplessness. Take away the emotions that are overwhelming you and release the happiness and then watch it flow and flow.

Now the question is 'why are you reacting to your breakup the way you are reacting'... Here is an interesting analogy about this question:

Have you noticed that when a baby tumbles and falls, he/she first raises its head and looks around, if he/she notices a parent or caring person watching him, it bursts into tears of rage/hurt, otherwise the baby simply gets up and waddles away attending to other more important issues in it's life.

Could it be that such a response is inherently programmed in a persons mind.

 So when you experience a breakup, and you have got lots of caring people ... family, friends etc who have a deep interest in you. You unconsciously react in the way you think you should react in order to gain subliminal approval/ sympathy from those who matter to you..

You start expressing pain, anger, helplessness, bitterness... because that is exactly what society has programmed into your mind through the ages. That is how you are expected to react. So that is precisely how you react.

And then you get  so entrained/ entrenched into the vibrations of victim-hood, that you find it difficult to get out of those harmful self limiting vibes.

 Hey stop considering yourself a victim. You don't need anybody's approval to get out of victim-hood. In fact the less you rely on other peoples approval the better it will be for you. Because your family and friends approval for you is tainted by their own individual limiting beliefs, you have to chose to stop living their 'truths' and start living your own.

 Your truth is that you are NOT a victim. You are in charge of your life. You are totally worthy, deserving and esteemed person. You can chose right now to stop feeling angry, helpless, hopeless, directionless and unlovable. You can chose to start loving yourself and feeling esteemed and deserving. You can chose to move on. So make the choice to get over your breakup, let happiness into your life and move on.

If you need more help with your breakup, read the following articles all the way through, they provide you with interesting, easy to implement strategies to get over your break up... and they work.

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IF after reading all the above relationship break up help strategies and articles and applying them to your life if you feel you are still not able to heal after a breakup, then I can only advise you to either find a professional therapist to help you or check out the following automated tools and use them:

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