how to break up with a good guy - a man you know
for sure likes you, and may even be entertaining long term plans with you.
When you are breaking up with a nice guy - a guy you
know still likes you and wants to keep on keeping on with you ... well you need
to be very gentle with such a man...
Before you even give him the "It's not you,
it's me..." talk and tell him that your ways are different from now onwards,
well because from all practical indications your paths truly diverge and move as far
apart as you can envision...
The promise of remaining friends and keeping
in touch can soften the blow.
Yet just keep in mind ... for that nice guys higher
interest, it is always better to make a clean break and let him lick his wounds
and ultimately recover to move on successfully with his own life.
That's the
least you should at least wish for him. because you are the one inflicting the
'heartless blows'.
Though of course you have your own right of way and
your own life to look after. You cannot compromise your life , for any 'nice
guy' however nice he may be.
It's always better now than later, when you
might be inflicting greater pain.
Please remember just before you do the
'kicking in the butt' act, to look deeply inside within you...
...Because nice guys don't grow on trees. You may never get him back
again. The wounds of your breakup
blows may be too great for him to heal or he might really move on.
So I sincerely hope in your own best
interest, that you do know your own mind and are leaving him for something really
better and just as dependable. Remember the grass is always greener on the other
side. Hence, are you sure that your other choice is really worth the trouble, and not
another 'pie in the sky' who merely regards you as a 'cute dumb ass'? For you
definitely don't want to be dumped as soon as he is through with using you to further his own interests or
finds a more 'cuter specimen'?
Look deep within you Sister... Do you know what you
are after? If you do, then forward ever.
Go ahead and break the news right
now. Tell him that it's not him, it's you... You need to move on. So 'good bye
and take care... do keep in touch please'.
You could send him an email or even leave a
message on his answering machine when you know that he will not be home. Or even
meet him one final time and tell him to his face...
That's for you to decide on how you will
handle this matter... because you have a better feel for this guy's attitude and
a better feel of the layout of your situation.
So go on and Don't look back.
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