Getting Over a Break Up - Where Did the Love Go?
Most couple's I know start a relationship simply
based on personal passion or if they have been having a good time together
initially - without any thought towards common ground or relationship goals.
If you are
honest about it, You often wonder what happened to the love and intimacy you
once had with your partner. Why the betrayal. Where did the love go? Though you are
smart enough to realize that - For a highly satisfying , and happy life...
Both you and your partner should be living
on passion and purpose. That means that both your individual passions, if not
converging, should at least take you along a parallel path where you can walk together and share
the joy with
each other. If you have diverging interests that take you in opposite directions
you should at least find some time to be able to appreciate each others
achievements, share them and thrive together. Otherwise diverging interests
could be a surefire recipe for break up.
What are the
common goals of your partnership. Are they to spend joyful happy time together,
work towards a common goal of wellbeing, happiness, probably raising a happy,
healthy family... or are each of you just working on your individual goals and
well being without any common ground to strive for.
Your common ground will be the glue that binds you
together through thick or thin of life.
Also the attitude you bring to your relationship
can have a big impact on whether you stay together or break up ultimately. Its
not just a matter of considering the glass as half full. No one wants to spend
time with chronic complainers or energy sucking vampires...
People enjoy spending time with positive,
fun loving and uplifting individuals, rather than people who tend to bring them
down. You will need a positive outlook once you get bogged down in the details
of practical living... such as issues of money etc. A lot of relationships
breakup over such petty details of everyday living. This could easily have been
avoided with a little bit of forethought, a positive outlook and proper
communication among the partners.
What are your expectations from your relationship, do you fully trust that it
will work out well. or do you mistrust your relationship. Your negative
expectations about your relationship can create mistrust, suspicion, and
jealousy in a relationship. Tearing it apart for no reason, except a lack of
positive expectations.
It is no secret that due to their attitude and
outlook to life, people keep on attracting similar partners with different
faces... End result being that they experience the same kind of relationship
problems over and over again. Resulting in repetitive breakups.
If you are stuck in such a cycle and wondering how
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