How To Catch a Cheating Spouse :

Okay you have noticed that your spouse is kind of pre-occupied and not showing enough of an interest in your normal activities together. If anything, your spouse seems to be wanting you out of the way by trying to create tasks / activities where either he/she has to go do it alone or you have to go do it by yourself leaving your spouse all alone.

This is followed by his/her abrupt long disappearances into the wash room or other room seeking privacy when he receives certain phone calls on his/her cell phone. These phone calls are always explained away as business clients or work related when you try to question... But what has changed is that all precautions are taken to prevent your overhearing any bits and pieces of the conversation.

Then there are unexplained long business trips which your spouse no longer wants to discuss or share with you.

Of course such trips always incur expenses that go along with lunch or dinner dates, flowers, chocolates, secret gifts and the rest of the secret dating and wooing game... and all these expenses are hidden away ... disguised as business expenses, or even paid off as cash ... the tracks are usually well covered.

Though being the smart spouse that you are , you do have some inkling that more money is being diverted and bamboozled away on things totally unrelated to your regular expenses.

So you do have a strong suspicion that your spouse is cheating on you. Yet you want to be absolutely sure. You don't want to accuse your spouse of unethical behavior especially if he/she is only pre-occupied with changing work demands and authentic business needs.

 Here are a few pointers you should start keeping note of if you really want to know how to  catch a  cheating spouse :

1. How much money is being diverted to unexplained expenses.

2. How much time does your spouse spend away on unexplained trips... you may corroborate this by calling his/her work associates to find out where your spouse is at that time... but be discreet, you don't want to spoil work relationships.

3. Is your spouse paying special attention to his / her appearance before leaving on such trips.... dressing for business is usually more conservative than dressing for secret heists.

4. Is your spouse hiding away secret gifts he/she might have received?

5. Why don't you try accompanying him/her on some of the business trips just to see your spouse's reaction?

6. Try and get into your spouse's email inbox secretly and review some of his/her emails?

7. Riffle through pockets/hand bags to find receipts etc. that will give you an inkling of where your cheating spouse had been to.

Finally, after you have collected enough evidence to confirm your spouse is cheating, it is time to make that confrontation. Read the article How to Confront a Cheating Spouse?

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