How To Cope
With A Broken Heart
How to cope with a broken heart? Why is your heart broken...
Is it because your beloved or the person you think you love has decided to give you the cold shoulder just like that or in favour of someone else you absolutely hate or are jealous of?
Well then be aware that its not love that is causing your heartbreak... it is your misguided overblown, bigger than your boots ego that is causing this indescribable havoc.
For if it were true love...
Tip: To Deal with a heart break First Answer the Question -- Do You Love Yourself ? -- For You will be loved only to the extent you love yourself -- Discover the perfect solution for how to deal with a heart break at the end of this article.
Yes, if it were true love,
So if you really love that person, you should not be experiencing any heartbreaks, and if you are, than know that it is not really love... it is simply a fleeting feeling which would have dissipated slowly anyway given the right amount of time and exposure to your beloved, because :
Your ego would have been turned down a notch at every real or imagined slight, action or attitude that did not identify with your ego's personal limits, definitions and beliefs...
In fact it could be absolutely anything that your ego decided to interpret in a different light than your belovedís perspective of it...
Thatís why people who have had very sensual or even tempestuous love affairs tend to fall out of this misguided feeling they called love very very easily...
It may take just a few days, a few years, a few months... just long enough for the novelty and shine to wear off. If you donít believe me then just go check statistics on divorce and split relationships that are multiplying at a very fast pace even as we speak.
Oh my God! I have seen couples who were so 'deeply in love' that one of them almost committed suicide just because of a strong objection from their family to that union. And later... that same person could not stand even the presence of her Ďbelovedí. This happened after several years of blissful marriage and two beautiful children. Ultimately ending in a very long drawn out and painful divorce... as it always does.
I can give you several more real life examples, I am sure you might know such people yourself, or may even have experienced it first hand.
First you couldn't live without each other and fought heatedly against anyone who had even the slightest objection to your relationship... and then you hate each others guts, or even can't stand to see one another happy... you may even consider each other 'jerks', losers or 'bastards' and may even go to great lengths to hurt or make things difficult for your 'ex'.
Why does this happen?
So my friend falling in and out of love is very common...
Before you make any major decisions... commit to a love relationship, or feel deprived of, cheated out of a relationship...
Was/Is it really love... unconditional love?
Or were / are you sticking to it to pamper certain feelings, impress your family and friends, or due to certain limiting beliefs you have/had about it?
Was it truly love or is it your ego speaking... that you canít let go of it?
Here's How to Deal With a broken Heart -- Stop. Think. Forgive. And Let go from the
greatness of your heart.
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