Break Up Survival Facts - Why Does it Always Happen to You?

Are You Expecting break ups as a fact of life:

With so much divorce and breakup statistics being bandied around. It has become almost a cliché to expect a breakup even before the relationship takes off officially. Hence you get to hear true stories among girl gossip of marriage proposals that go like: Will you be my first wife? or comments like: 'My wife will divorce me if I do this'.

The fact of the matter is, that how you approach your relationship right from the very first moment becomes an ultimate reality. If you expect a breakup right from the start, 99.5% of the time, this becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. It's more like: Be careful what you ask for...you might just get it.

 So are you subconsciously or even consciously asking for a break up or divorce?

Yes, it is an undisputed fact:

• Your psychological issues/ beliefs can influence or cause a break up

• Your parents / family's attitude towards relationships can influence your breakup

• Your friends attitude towards relationships can influence your break-up.

• Your past relationships can influence your present relationship.

• Any unfulfilled loves or your first boyfriend/ girlfriend can influence your current relationship even though he/she may be millions of miles away from you now.

It's all dependant on the emotional psychological baggage you are carrying around with you every where you go. The emotional messages you have been getting all your life have metamorphosed in to beliefs and stored in your mind like computer programs. These start running all over again making you react to situations, behave and take actions in certain predetermined patterns.

For instance have you noticed any similarities between your past girlfriends or boyfriends and present ones... Yes, you always tend to bundle up with a certain kind of personality even though it might have hurt you in the past.

Or have you noticed why you always tend to get in with the wrong guys or gals and break up soon , while a few of your friends tend to find the right ones almost instantly.

Or why does it always happen to you?

Have you forgotten that cute guy or girl in high school, who almost asked you out to the graduation dance but was hi-jacked by your best friend at the last moment? Don't you subconsciously still measure up all your current partners against that one personality?

Or your dad was secretly cheating on your mom and you unwittingly discovered  his big secret, giving you the subliminal message that this is what happens all the time?

Or your best friend has just gotten hitched a third time, having gotten rid of the first two very cleverly, and you think that is what all smart girls/guys do?

Remember all those beliefs metamorphosed into computer subroutines, running silently behind the cells of your mind... making you do , say and act in a certain way?

That's where it all comes from. If you subconsciously expect a break up or divorce , its only a matter of time before the self fulfilling prophecy shows up in your life.

Now the million dollar question is : Can you re-program your mind to get rid of all those unwanted beliefs? And the answer is, YES. But this will happen only if you really want it to... the tools are already present Click Here!