Why Do Couple Break Up
 

Reasons for couples breaking up are  :

1. Inadequate communication or mis-communication. - one person says something , another construes it as something else, hence reacts according to his/her perception leaving the first person in a 'mental haze'... what happened - lack of proper communication.

2. Break down in trust. Trust in a relationship is very important... a couple cannot survive happily together, if they do not trust each other.

3. Suspicion - being suspicous of your partners motives or actions with or without cause.

4. Jealousy - if one of the person's in the relationship has a jealous nature and tries to keep tabs or control his/her partner.

5. Being a control freak - if you try to control your partner all the time, very soon he / she will start avoiding you.

6. Lack of compromise - for a relationship to thrive, there is a give and take from both partners.

7. Nagging, accusing or making your partner feel guilty with or without reason.

8. Insensitivity - to each others feelings and beliefs.

9. Lack of respect for each other.

10. An uncaring attitude.

11. Gossiping or talking or complaining of your partner's shortcomings or conversations or attitudes to friends or relatives when he/she is not around.

12. Making fun of his / her physical, educational or other features and interests.

13. Being aggressive, angry most of the time or even violent.

14. Taking the relationship for granted... losing interest... doing the same old thing day in day out without making an effort to keep the spark alive.

15. Lack of appreciation of your partner.

16. lack of joy, happiness or emotional satisfaction.

17. Having vastly different goals that makes living together impossible.

18. Not being there for each other.

19. One of the partner's 'being away' most of the time.

20. A 'superiority' or 'inferiority' complex between the partners.

21. Emotional or Physical abuse by either of the partner's involved.

22. Cheating or infidelity.

23. Lying and Stealing between partners.

24. Feeling insecure in the relationship.

25. Meeting someone more 'compatible'.

If you are wanting a perfect relationship  without any of the above problems showing up in your life. I urge you to listen to Incredible Self Esteem and Win Friends & Influence People ; and if your partner is amiable to the idea of listening to Self Help Audio CD's make him do so too. You will be able to attract /create a relationship that is just right for you.