How to Breakup with a Girl /Boy / Partner
If you have made up your mind to break up
with your present girl or boy friend or partner… you have probably given
it a lot of thought and have got good solid reasons behind the why you
want to breakup.
While respecting your feelings and
decision, you are advised to also consider the emotional feelings of your
boy/ girl / partner… Don’t just leave them high and dry… hitting them
smack in the face with your decision to no longer associate with him/her…
Though of course talking about a breakup
and trying to make your partner see logic and be reasonable about it can
be a formidable task.
Here is one proposed method for breaking up
gently without causing emotional heart break to yourself or to your
Give yourself time… At least a
month or more before you plan on moving out of your partners / girl/
boys life… boost yourself as well as your girl/boy friend/partner with
strong self esteem… Get these
Incredible Self Esteem
tapes and listen to them everyday , as well as make your
partner listen to them too.
When you feel that now your partner will
be able to handle the news of the breakup… Don’t announce it in the home
front… Take them out some place where you can have some privacy but not
too much of it… and tell them about your decision.
Explain yourself… Tell him/her that
you respect him/her, find them very intelligent and good to be with, but
you are finding your feelings with him/her tending more towards the
friendship side rather than the relationship side of things. Hence you
need to move on and cannot continue in this relationship anymore.
If your partner tries to cry or make a
scene about it… Just tell them that you are sorry, and hope that he/she
will feel better after thinking it over, it is in the best interest for
both of you… say good bye and leave.
If your partner tries to argue with you
logically, then explain yourself further, say it is for the best, wish
him/her good luck and tell them you must get going. And leave.
Keep the parting short… Though there might
be some hard initial feelings on both sides, but due to the
Incredible Self Esteem boost.. both yourself
and your girl/ boy / partner will soon get on with your lives.
If you do not get to use the
Incredible Self Esteem
before your break up -- Other Products both of you could try
afterwords to get over this break up and get on with your individual
Get Over a Lover! or
Forgive That Person Self Hypnosis .
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