Making a
Professional Career Change? 10 Career - Killers to Avoid When You Resign Your
Job
Making a Professional Career Change? 10 Career-Killers
to Avoid When You Resign Your Job
Copyright © 2006 Cathy Goodwin, Ph.D.
21-Day Extreme Career Makeover Guide
http://www.cathygoodwin.com/21days.html
Congratulations! You just got an offer for a wonderful new job.
There's just one catch. You have to say good-by to your current
employer.
Maybe you loved your job and you face an emotional farewell. Or
you maybe you detested every minute and you've been counting the
days till you could walk out the door one last time.
Clients often admit they're nervous about making the departure
announcement. They're afraid the boss will be angry. They feel
guilty about the work they're leaving behind. Maybe someone else
has to take up the slack for awhile.
But clients also wonder how to resign gracefully yet still
protect their own longer-term career interests. They suspect
their departure style will influence their careers for a long
time.
They're right. Resigning the wrong way can create a career
breakdown and derail your journey to success.
Career Killer #1: Giving too much notice.
Every so often my clients feel sorry for their former colleagues.
So they stick around an extra week (or even an extra month).
Inevitably, they begin to feel like a fifth wheel. Nearly
everyone says, "Next time I'm leaving right away!"
Career Killer #2: Saying "yes" to requests from the company you
just left.
Your boss required two weeks notice - but belatedly realized she
needs four weeks for a smooth transition to your successor.
Your boss made a business decision to require two weeks notice.
When she miscalculates, she needs to accept the cost, just as
she'd accept the cost of late payments to a supplier.
If your company needs additional help, offer to work as a paid
consultant with a contract. But get everything in writing and
make sure your new job becomes your Number One priority.
Career Killer #3: Ignoring past and present company policies
regarding disclosures and no-compete agreements.
Some companies are extremely proprietary about their process
and their people. Once you resign, you may have to leave the
workplace immediately. Or your new company may ask you not to
work for your former employer, even on a part-time basis.
Career Killer #4: Telling colleagues you're leaving - before you
tell the boss.
A tempting move but a deadly mistake! Your boss deserves to be
the first person to know.
Phone is second best. And tell the boss before you tell anyone
else - even your best friend or golfing buddy.
Career Killer #5: Expecting the boss to be upset.
Clients often tiptoe around, fearing a boss's anger or
disappointment. But bosses typically behave professionally
and expect you to do the same.
Good bosses are happy to see their employees move ahead. Thank
her for the opportunity to learn. Emphasize how her help
contributed to your ability to make this wonderful career move.
Career Killer #6: Allowing deep-rooted anger to get in the way
of professionalism.
Thank your boss and your coworkers, even if you hate them all
and can't wait to leave.
You may regard them more fondly through a haze of memories than a
glare of office lighting. You may encounter them at conventions
and networking groups. And most likely you will benefit from
strong references and goodwill.
Career Killer #7: Accepting a counter-offer.
Recruiters consistently tell me, "Sixty percent of those who
accept a counter-offer are gone in six months." If you decide
to stay, get a written job contract.
Exception: A few companies and industries actually demand proof
of an outside offer before offering you any kind of internal
raise or reward. College professors often work in this
environment.
Career Killer #8: Treating the exit interview as a therapy
session.
When a Human Resource professional asks why you are leaving, be
upbeat and positive: "for a better opportunity." Talk about how
much you loved the company and your job. You never know where
your comments will turn up, mangled and misinterpreted.
Career Killer #9: Sharing details of your new position with your
"old" colleagues and coworkers.
Occasionally a colleague will try to assess your salary or other
information "so we can stay competitive in recruiting." Helping
your company recruit is not part of your job and anyway, do you
really believe this?
Details of your future employment should remain confidential,
even from your close friends in the company.
Career Killer #10: Focusing on the company (and career) you just
left.
Once you're gone, you're history. The very same folks who loved
meeting you for lunch will barely remember your name a week
later.
And, if you haven't changed jobs for awhile you may be in for a
shock. Your first day in a new position can be a real eye-opener!
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Cathy Goodwin, Ph.D., helps corporate executives,
business-owners and professionals transform career
breakdowns to career breakthroughs.
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